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Christian Carter Interviews Marie
Forleo
Christian Carter had the opportunity to interview
Marie Forleo, an accomplished dancer, choreographer,
and sought after fitness professional as well as up
and coming relationship expert. She's worked with
companies like MTV, VH1, Nike, and Self Magazine.
Marie is also a successful personal coach and author
of the book: Make Every Man Want You: How To Be So
Damn Irresistible You'll Barely Keep From Dating
Yourself.
In this interview, Marie Forleo shared with
Christian Carter some amazing insights on how to be
irresistibly attractive to a man and how to do this
in a way that keeps you powerfully grounded in
remaining true to who you really are. Lots of women
end up finding themselves in the exact situations
they’ve told themselves to never get into with a man
and end up feeling so frustrated and confused about
it that they start acting like someone even they
don’t know.
Here are just some of the highlights of Christian
Carter’s interview with Marie Forleo.
1. Never Settle
One of the ideas that Marie Forleo stressed was the
importance of never SETTLING for a man who doesn't
meet YOUR NEEDS. And yes… there’s a way to do this
without being one of those “inflexible” people, or
acting “bitchy”.
2. Develop an “Irresistible” Mindset Marie shared
some fascinating ways you can make yourself
irresistible to men. She said that every woman is
ALREADY irresistible but there are certain things
you're unaware of that are keeping your
irresistibility hidden. That there's a kind of
self-imposed “lid” on top of the things women
naturally have that make them irresistible. And this
lid is made up of something so small, yet so
pervasive, that it’s almost always there for lots of
women. The “lid” is all the negative messages you
received growing up… from your family, culture, etc.
and the negative messages and beliefs you repeat
over in your own mind. These keep you from
expressing the irresistible side of YOU and instead
replace it with tentative behavior and fear. Marie
describes what’s hidden under the “lid” as an
untapped gold-mine that you simply need to excavate
in order to discover what has ALWAYS been there.
There's really nothing more you need to ADD from the
outside world. The answer is uncovering the real,
natural YOU. How's that for an empowering message?
And sure… it sounds simple. But if you’ve tried it,
then you know that it’s not quite that easy. That’s
where Marie has some VERY unique insights for women
in the dating and relationship world. To uncover
that real authentic YOU… who is irresistible… you
have to get rid of the baggage and negative thought
patterns that keep the “lid" on “your potential.
One common habit of thinking that keeps women from
attracting a great guy for a lasting relationship is
the habit of thinking that something outside of
yourself will give you the happiness that you're
looking for. This “outside something” could be your
idea of the perfect man… or the perfect job… the
perfect house… the perfect date… the perfect way
that a man might share his feelings with you… etc.
Marie tells Christian Carter that this entire belief
of getting something outside yourself that will
create the right situations and feeling inside is –
in her own words – a “bunch of crap”.
Do you find yourself continually thinking of some
fictional time in the future – rather than being in
the moment, right here…and right NOW? Most women –
and men – live in a fantasy future world most of the
time… thinking that there is something more perfect,
bigger, better, sexier, more open, more “available”,
etc. But Marie says that when you change this habit
of thought from looking outside yourself and to the
future for satisfaction... and become more aware of
what's happening inside YOU in THIS moment… that
you'll go a long way towards taking that “lid” off
and uncovering your “irresistible self”.
Another great dating tip Marie Forleo shared with
Christian Carter is to get into the right
“headspace” and start to see things in a more
positive and constructive way is to get interested
in what you have in your life right now. Start
treating it like “This is it. This is my situation.
This is my life, my friends, my body, my job, my man
or lack thereof… and it's time I stop fantasizing of
something better and instead really get curious
about making the most of how my life is TODAY.” When
you do this, she says you'll shift out of being a
past/future based person… and instead you'll become
very PRESENT. And when you're PRESENT, your “being”…
your irresistible self… will shine through. The
whole, creative, intuitive, and irresistible you
gets unleashed when you stop focusing on the future
or the past… and you get into the present.
3. Get Radically Honest
Have you ever been at the beginning of a
relationship… but you felt things were unsure… and
you didn't exactly know how the guy felt about you?
Perhaps you were wondering what he was thinking… and
what you should do next in response. “Should I call
now? Should I wait 3 days? Should I not call at
all... and wait for him to call me? How does he
REALLY feel about me!?” Marie says all this mental
stress will fade away as you practice becoming more
present. Your intuition will get so much stronger…
you'll see very clearly what YOU want… you’ll get
all the answers that you’ll ever need to know… and
you'll always end up taking the right action… IF
you’re living in the present moment and being
truthful to yourself. And you’ll naturally start to
throw out all those “rules” that you've picked up
from books, friends, etc., and you'll begin to
follow your inner guiding voice, since now you can
trust it to guide you. And if you want things to
change or move forward with a man, you'll take the
action you need to take at the right time in the
present moment when you’re with him.
4. Trash Your “Perfect Man Checklist”
Most women have a long laundry list of the things
they're looking for in a man. But Marie says this
list often comes from influences OUTSIDE of
ourselves…. the culture you live in, the magazines
you read, friends and family, past experiences that
don’t have much relevance on today, etc.
But by opening her perspective, she allowed this
phenomenal guy to enter her life…. a guy who
surprised her in so many ways… with all sorts of
traits that she had never experienced before… and
who turned out to be so much fun! And it’s probably
no coincidence that she didn’t run into the same old
relationship patterns and emotional experiences she
had with all the same kinds of guys she had dated
before…So… take that perfect man checklist I know
you have in the back of your mind… and throw that
thing in the trash can… IMMEDIATELY.
These are just some of the highlights of Christian
Carters Interview with Marie. Sign yourself up now
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