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WHO IS Christian Carter, and How
Can he Give WOMEN Dating Advice?
As a child and throughout my life I’ve been
fortunate enough to be surrounded by open and
communicative women—family, friends, women I’ve
dated and women I work with. From an early age I got
to see a whole range of female perspectives across
generations and experiences. My parents divorced, I
had an older sister, I had lots of female friends,
and my family’s friends were mostly single women.
From the age of 11 until well into my college years,
my family would often have guests at the dinner
table. The guest list usually consisted of my mom,
my sister, and two or three of my mom’s or sister’s
friends—all women.
I listened intently and developed my own insights
from what I heard. I began to intuitively understand
what these women experienced and what they felt as I
listened to their perspectives on men, emotions,
relationships, love—everything. I started to
understand what “made sense” to them and how they
interacted with the world.
I started to finally “get” the special language and
“code” that I didn’t understand before, language
that I know lots of men never really understand when
communicating with women.
It was a great learning experience for me, and one
that left me comfortable and empathetic with women.
I was privy to all kinds of “inside” stuff young men
don’t usually get exposed to until later on in life.
I heard women’s perspectives on dating, attraction,
turn-offs, failed relationships, flirting, sex,
infidelities, divorce… everything. As a young man,
each woman wanted to tell me her story so that I
wouldn’t “be like the other guys.” They wanted to
help me to grow up to be a great guy.
Since then, I’ve realized that there are lots of
great guys out there, but they need a little help
getting to where they need to be in order to have a
healthy relationship with a woman. Men have their
own logic and way of communicating. Just as men need
to become better at understanding women and what
they want, women also have to learn how men think
and speak in order to be successful in a
relationship.
I’ve had all kinds of dating experiences and
relationships. I’ve had love and lost it. I’ve had
failures and successes. I’ve been a player and have
been played. I’ve hurt women and I’ve been hurt.
Of course, I’ve gone through that typical male
“bachelor syndrome,” where I was in a relationship
but secretly felt that I wasn’t ready to settle down
or commit. I denied those feelings for a while
because of the woman I was with and what she meant
to me. I’ve experienced my own issues over and over
and learned that in order to be happy, I had to
finally deal with them.
I’ve been on the receiving end of a lot of the
mistakes most women make with men because I was the
guy making things difficult for her from the other
end. I consider myself lucky that I have learned a
lot but not hurt any women too badly in the process.
Seeing, living, and studying all this, I’ve learned
that I can help women get what they want with
dating, love, and relationships because I’ve known
hundreds of women and heard thousands of stories.
I’ve done my own research and have my own
experiences to share as a man.
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