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Here is a little excerpt of one of the things you
will learn from Christian Carter inside the
Catch
Him and Keep Him eBook on Attracting a Man...
Here's a PARTIAL list of what creates that
ATTRACTION for a man:
• Unpredictability
• Uncontrollability
• Challenging
• Casual Interplay of Dominance/Submission
Of course, there are many more, but this will get us
started. The qualities I've listed above, when
presented correctly, trigger the natural "attraction
mechanism" inside of men. “Bitchy” women have taken
natural qualities that are ATTRACTIVE to women a
little "too far.” But because they're still there,
the qualities trigger the attraction anyway.
So what does this mean to you? “Selfish” behavior,
as unhealthy as this might sound, often makes men
feel attracted to you and wins them over to your way
of thinking. Weird, huh? Sarcasm, playing hard to
get, challenging their behavior and beliefs and all
kinds of other "illogical" things like letting a man
know that you’ll only date him seriously if he’s
open to considering marriage as an option in the
future really does work when it comes to attracting
and keeping good men around.
Check out the book Why Men Marry Some Women and Not
Others by John T. Molloy for more on men and
marriage. It’s all there in the cold hard statistics
of the women who married and those that didn’t.
Personality Traits That Attract Men
In the next section, I’m going to describe the
particular personalities that naturally attract men.
But before I do, I’d like to talk about some of
these different behaviors and personality traits
associated with Intellectual Attraction. Some are
better when used in combination with others, and
some don’t work well together. Here’s a list with
brief descriptions. I’ll talk about how to combine
these later.
• Sense of humor. Being funny and witty is just
plain powerful with men. If you keep him laughing,
things will naturally keep escalating.
• Intelligence and creativity. Intelligence is sexy
if it’s used in an interesting way. Use your
intelligence and creativity to surprise him with
concepts, fantasies, and unexpected things that are
charming and fun.
• Thoughtful. Men don’t like to be over-appreciated
or be kissed up to. But if you can let a man know
that you were thinking about him in a way that
doesn’t say “I’m lonely and I need you”, then he’ll
love it. Send him a short witty email that lets him
know that he’s on your mind.
• Perceptive or noticing details. Men love to be
noticed. If he’s really good at something (i.e.
sports), or smart in some particular area, he will
probably use these things to be important and
attractive. Men are impressed by women who notice
things about them that make them unique.
• Adventurous. Men bond with other people when there
is some kind of adventure with them. So men are
instantly drawn to women who suggest and take part
in extreme, adventurous, unusual, or even dangerous
things. The excitement of the activity transfers
over to his perspective of your being an exciting
and sexy woman.
• Confident/Playful. Men are magnetically attracted
to women who are just a little bit too playful or
cocky. Just a little. Some women can be bitchy and
distant, but that kind of cold attitude isn’t what
I’m talking about. If you watch Renee Russo in the
Thomas Crown Affair or Kelly McGillis in Top Gun,
you’ll see what I’m talking about. Being assertive
with a touch of arrogant humor will make you magical
in a man’s eyes.
• Talents & Knowledge. If you’ve got something that
you’re an expert in, it can be really attractive.
Bring it up with a man in a way that says, “Hey,
check this out, this is interesting…” and then do
something that surprises him. Don’t do it in a way
that says, I’m really smart and cool.”
• Attention. Men like attention. It’s strange how it
works too. It’s better to hint that you’re giving
them attention than to just give it. Say to a man,
“I was thinking about the way you spoke earlier, and
I just want to say how much I love the sound of your
voice.” Doing that is much more powerful than just
sitting there, listening to him, and staring into
his eyes, hoping that he feels the connection and
understands that you like his voice.
• Being A Challenge. Men often pursue women, but
lots of times when a woman likes a man, she’ll start
pursuing him, sometimes without even knowing that
she’s doing it. If you’re relaxed and casual with a
man who might like you or who you like, call him and
tell him that you’re bored and that he needs to
entertain you. If done in a playful way, he’ll often
do his best to do something to get your attention.
Let him know that he needs to do something
spectacular or else you’re disinterested. It can
drive men crazy, but they really love it. Yeah, this
can be bratty, but the right touch of brattiness
(without the snobby high-maintenance stuff) is just
what you’re after.
• Aggressive (just a touch). Men love to see women
who can go after something in their life and not be
deterred and frustrated by it. And I’m not talking
about going after a man. I’m talking about a goal or
something in the woman’s own personal life.
• Assertive. Men are used to being the leader. So if
a woman is assertive and confident in any social
situation, it is a sign to men that she knows how to
make things happen. Seeing an assertive woman can be
refreshing and intriguing for a man. Although men
tend to take the lead, men also love women who can
lead.
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