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Here is an excerpt of one of the things you will
learn from Christian Carter inside the Catch Him and
Keep Him eBook on Men and Dating...
Most men enjoy dating. They date often and get all
kinds of benefits and knowledge about women from
dating. And given the chance, they’d date more if
they could.
On the other hand, lots of women seem to date less
than men and tend to look for “quality not
quantity.” Women often seem to think that it’s
somehow wrong or inappropriate to date very much.
But imagine this… what if you went out on lots of
dates but didn’t take any of them to any attached or
physical level? I’m asking because I think that this
idea could free you up to go out on more dates… And
imagine all the new things that you’d learn about
men and dating! Do you think you’d start to see some
common signals, patterns, and warning signs? Do you
think you could go for a little advice in this
arena?
Maybe you’d start to learn more about what kind of a
man you really don’t like and what kind of men you
do like. But unfortunately, women don’t often have
these kinds of experiences with dating. Women can
date and get to know more than one or two guys, but
they usually won’t because they feel strange about
it. And society tells women through stories, myths,
and media that what’s paramount in dating is to find
one quality man and stick with him and make it work.
Women are subtly told that dating several men is
somehow “wrong”, even if they’re just getting to
know the guys. So let me say it clearly to make sure
you’re not confused— this is not a secret - you can
date a lot and not be a slut. I’d actually encourage
it, as much as you might think that it will be
annoying. But you DON’T have to feel attracted to,
start to like, or hook up with any of the men you
date. So get rid of any pressure on yourself about
it. And some women think that they won’t really
attract a guy and catch his interest if they don’t
fool around with him and work on the physical
attraction stuff.
The opposite is actually true—you shouldn’t fool
around much at all with men when you’re in the
earlier stages of dating and shouldn’t worry about
physical attraction too much either. Just go out and
learn more about men and what kind of guy fits best
with you by dating. And not being intimate will do
some good things for you. It will guarantee that
you’ll be more objective in your judgment AND that
you’ll feel comfortable to date other men and keep
learning.
It might seem odd, but dating a few men casually
will also trigger major ATTRACTION in the men around
you. By not being intimate with the men you’re
dating and letting them subtly know you’re open to
dating other men and doing the choosing, you’ll send
a strong message that you have standards and a man
must meet them before you will settle down with him.
This creates a unique kind of respect mixed with
desired if a man knows that he can’t just have you.
If you’re dating this way, don’t be surprised if
several men who didn’t pay that much attention to
you before become instantly intrigued by you. And
remember how I talked about men wanting to date
forever? Men who date a lot get a huge benefit that
can turn them into experts when it comes time to
choosing a woman to settle down with. They’ve done
their homework through real-world experience by
figuring out what qualities and temperaments that
they fit well with and enjoy the most in a partner.
Wouldn’t this work for you too?
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