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If you know how to communicate the right way, men
will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a
HIGH LEVEL of interest and ATTRACTION. When you know
how to incorporate flirting as a form of "adult
verbal play," you tune in to a frequency in a man's
mind and cause him to go into a very special kind of
One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get
it". In other words, you have to actually get out
there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it
works. I think a lot of women give up when they try
a cute line or technique and a man responds
negatively. Instead of just realizing that they need
more practice or that the man might have just been
in a bad mood or maybe he is just one of those
horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they
take it personally and decide that it means they're
a failure and should stop trying. Or if they flirt
with a guy, connect with him, and then he turns out
to be a toad instead of a Prince, they secretly
decide that being the one to flirt is bad and
creates negative outcomes with men.
So donít be a quitter! Read on...
Take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt
youíll start to have amazing interactions with men
everywhere Ė on the train, in line at the grocery
store, or even on the street. And amazing things
will start to happen when you have the excitement
and energy that comes into your life from being able
to do this with men and just have fun with it. But
whatís even better is that a woman who has OPTIONS
and who can afford to be clear and SELECTIVE about
the one lucky man she chooses both attracts the
right kind of man, and usually has several to choose
from. How great does that sound!?
Here are some great online dating and flirting tips:
#1: Treat men kindly...If a single guy you are not
interested in approaches you and flirts ...be
nice.... All the other men are watching to see what
you do. If you laugh and make fun of him after he
leaves or act "put out", you are killing your
chances on anyone other men approaching you. Even if
you donít like the guy, be nice, shake his hand,
tell him you appreciate what it takes to come talk
to someone you donít know and then let him down
#2: PERSISTENCE!!! Ok ladies - guys can be dense -
we need to guide them. You need to let him know in
at least three different verbal or non-verbal ways
that you are interested in him! After he finally
gets the hint, he will know its ok to approach you
and the rest will be a snap.
#3: Whisper...it always gets a man's attention. Ask
him if you can tell him a secret...Then whisper in
his ear: 'I just love your shirt...can I buy it from
you when you are done with it?' This is SO SEXY he
wonít know what hit him, and very unusual too!
#4: IF he acts like an ass, be polite - but firm.
Tell him, without animosity, to go practice his
moves on someone else until he knows how to speak to
a lady. Let's face it girls, we need to train them.
#5: Don't be around other women...men don't want to
be rejected in front of an audience - they are much
less likely to approach a group than a single girl.
If you do go out with a friend, which most of us do,
then try to separate every so often or take a
breather from talking - look around the room, sit
back, kind of "remove yourself" from the group a
#6: LOOK HIM UP AND DOWN! Guys do this to us all the
time - nod in approval and then flash him your most
#7: Look back over your shoulder...and smile at him.
This is a classic sign of interest.