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Christian Carter Interviews Rori
Raye
Christian Carter of Catch Him and Keep Him
interviewed Rori Raye,
(formerly known as Rori Gwynne) noted dating coach,
this month in his Interviews With Dating &
Relationships Experts series. Dating Coach Rori
Gwynne (Rori Raye) has some excellent dating tips in
general, and relationship advice for women
especially.
Rori begins the interview by telling Christian how
she made some terrible choices in men in her early
dating career. When she met her husband, she was not
interested in him at all. She realized, however,
that the choices she had been making were not good
choices, and she made a conscious choice to give her
husband a chance. After making this choice, she and
her husband began dating and were married within 6
months.
However, the fairy tale ended after the birth of her
daughter. Rori began to feel angry and unhappy in
her marriage. She realized she was being
manipulative of her husband, she was telling him
what to do constantly, and with her constant
interference was actually pushing him away.
Coach Rori realized what she was doing, and began
the road to healing her marriage by instantly
stopping the manipulation of her husband, stopping
the interference and the way she was pushing him.
She noticed an immediate difference in her marriage.
Coach Rori has identified 5 keys to success in any
relationship. She tells Christian Carter that the
first key she has discovered is deciding to be in a
relationship. Being in a relationship means giving
up independence. In the first step, deciding to go
into a relationship, Rori Raye explains that women
must ready themselves for a relationship. She
encourages them to clean out a drawer for a man,
make her house and bedroom ready for another person,
and to essentially “create a void” for her partner
to eventually fill.
Step 2 is separating the masculine and feminine -
the thinking, decision making, doing masculine
energy partner, or the feeling, intuitive, sensual
female partner. Like an intricate dance, there can
be some fluctuation, with either partner at times
showing attributes of the other, but for the most
part, develop your role as the feminine or
masculine. One way that women drive men away is by
trying to be in control all the time, deciding where
to go and when to go and how to do things. By making
these decisions, the woman is telling the man he is
not doing it right, he is not capable of taking a
leadership role.
The third step is to “support the team”. The
decision must be made to support the relationship in
everything you do. The fourth key is to “respect the
masculine” and stopping the disrespect toward the
partner. The fifth key is to express the feminine.
Express the feminine gender in “just being”,
stopping when you are rushing, experiencing feelings
and allowing those feelings to come through.
Rori also highly recommends not having a sexual
relationship with a man for quite a while. Sexual
relationships leave women vulnerable and create
almost an addiction through attraction. Rori also
encourages women to focus on how they feel, and not
what the man is thinking.
Coach Rori Raye tells
Christian Carter that her mantra is “Trust your
boundaries, follow your feelings, choose your words
and be surprised.” Rori truly encourages a woman to
follow this mantra, trusting in your inner self and
following your feelings by allowing yourself to feel
your emotions and express them, but to express them
by saying “I feel this” and give no explanation,
allowing the man to step into his role and explore
why you feel the way you do if he is able to. When
you choose your words by with-holding some of the
explanations for your feelings, you allow the man to
explore his own feelings and his own place in the
relationship.
The happy ending to this all is the “surprise”. If
you allow your man to explore his own needs without
putting your feelings in his mouth so to speak, you
will be surprised at how it all turns out and how
you and your partner will grow together and into a
cohesive, well rounded unit.
Want some more information on Coach Rori’s book?
Check it out right here - AND - it comes with a
special FREE personal email consultation with Coach
Rori herself.
Here is a little bit about Coach Rori’s book:
Have you ever wondered why some women seem to
naturally attract great men, while your friends keep
telling you the only men out there are losers? What
if your friends are wrong? What if there really are
plenty of great, available men? What if your Mr.
Perfect-For-You really is out there, and you don’t
even have to go looking for him, because he’s
looking for you? What if the relationship you’re in
could be the relationship of your dreams? Have you
found yourself screaming and yelling, and feeling
frustrated and angry because your boyfriend “doesn’t
want to get married” – for any number of reasons –
“he’s scared, he’s just not ready, he needs more
time? Do you walk around thinking you don’t deserve
love, even though your heart tells you you do? Are
all your past relationship disasters making you feel
like giving up on love?
What if it was so much easier than anyone ever told
you to interest a man and draw him close? There’s a
reason any man picks you out of a crowd. And there’s
a reason he keeps asking you out. The truth is that
most women use words and body language that work
wonderfully - for pushing men away. There's another
way of talking and moving that makes men
instinctively come toward you. And what do you do if
you’re in a relationship that doesn’t seem to be
going anywhere? How did you get there, and what
should you do now? Does it seem that your options
are to just keep going, frustrated and unhappy, or
to leave? There’s another way, a third way to see if
this man you’re with is the right man. It’s a way to
see him and relationship free of all the drama and
confusion. It’s a way to stop doing what’s pushing
him away, and those things will surprise you. We
think we need to be nice, when what he really wants
is for us to be REAL. We believe we need to be
heard, and yet we speak in words he can’t hear –
words that blame him rather than express our own
feelings. We often feel that we’re expressing
ourselves, and yet we create drama to keep from
seeing what’s really in front of us.
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the Relationship You Want.
These are just some of the highlights of Christian
Carters Interview with Rori Raye. Sign yourself up
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